Dreams reflect reality

Dreams reflect reality

Dream and life are closely combined together, is the so-called 'life is like a dream'. In any case, we can treat life events like dreams, events that are not accidental but have a certain meaning, and we can interpret them as if they were dreams.

An auto repair student told his roommate in the evening that he had had a bad day.

Because he dreamed that the watch lent to him by his father was broken. The classmate persuaded him and said, 'Is this just a dream? Maybe to remind you of something.' This sentence inspired him, the watch broke, is the time stopped, this is a signal to stop to check your own day how the time is used. Then he really reflects on himself, he sees the meaning of his day life as he sees the meaning of a dream. He did not want to learn car repair, he just wanted to find a relatively light pressure job, although the money will be less, others will not pay attention to him, but he will feel very relaxed, will be very free. But his father always instilled in him the importance of hard work. He felt that perhaps he should not continue to live according to his father's belief values, but should arrange his time according to his own values and needs, and find a suitable job for him.

Another example is a physics department of college students, one day suddenly feel that psychology is good, so he chose psychology this

Class. However, after he learned general psychology, he felt that psychology was too boring. He had a dream that he went shopping in a big department store and wanted to buy a pair of fashionable shoes. However, there was only an older salesman in the shoe cabinet, and the products he sold were not of good quality and were a little outdated. Helplessly picked a pair of shoes that I think I can get by. However, a week later, the shoes went wrong, the sole degummed, took back to the store, promised to repair, but the quality is still not guaranteed, because it is their own selection, responsibility, in the mood to wake up in frustration. After dream analysis, it was found that this dream showed his true feelings about psychology at present, he felt that the discipline disappointed him, it was his own choice, and he would not learn it well in the future, just like the bad shoes in the dream, 'can be repaired, but the quality is still not guaranteed'. Knowing his choice was wrong in his dream, he changed his plan and gave up the elective course.

Another girl said that she had had this dream for as long as she could remember: 'I was at the bottom of a pit, trying to climb up, and just as I reached the edge of the pit, my hands grasped the edge of the pit, when a man ran and stepped on my hand.' I had to let go and fell hard back down the pit.'

It turned out that the girl had grown up in a destructive environment: her father was alcoholic, brutal, and often beat her; The mother often had an affair with other men, and the family was short of food and clothing and dirty. She tried to kill herself when she was 12, but tried several times without success.

The dream embodies the tragedy of the girl's life - her life and her feelings. If the dream occurred only once, we would think that it represented a sense of fear caused by the dreamer's particular predicament. However, the fact that it was constantly appearing makes one think that the dream was the theme of the girl's life. The belief it expresses is so deep and immutable that we can fully understand why she repeatedly wanted to kill herself.

There are also dreams in which the same theme is repeated, but the content varies greatly. Here's an example of a series of dreams:

First, I dreamed that I was trapped in a kiln - from which I could not escape.

Then I dreamed that I wanted to go abroad - but had no passport, so I had to return it.

Then I dreamed that I was on the sea - I wanted to find a ship in a harbor, but I didn't find it, I didn't know how to leave

Drive there.

Finally, I dreamed that I was at home and wanted to go out, but the door could not be opened. With a hard pull, the door opened and he walked out. The theme of this series of dreams is the fear of not being able to get out, of being imprisoned, of not being able to 'escape.' What this fear means in the dreamer's life we need not consider here. But as we can see from this series of dreams, this fear has persisted over the years, but it has become weaker. First he got stuck, then he couldn't open the door. The dreamer initially felt that he could not escape, but in the last dream, he got away, and with only a little effort, opened the door and went out. This dream indicates that the dreamer has the courage and confidence to walk out of the old life and towards the new life, and he has found an effective way in real life. This dream is not so much a premonition of reality as a reflection of reality itself.